Those updates

Wow, I really haven't blogged in a while. So here is an update.

The PaternalUnit still does not have a job, so money is really tight, but we are surviving. I am 6 months into my project and still it feels like I failed every single experiment making my project give me a strange vibe, since I need to start writing up in about 12 months. I am still single, and have a load of crushes on either people who are involved, straight or a combination of the two.

I have been making new friend though. Met this really nice guy through Skype. He is from America (and yes he has asked me if there are any wild animals close to where I live, but I think he was joking[I hope]). Still need to think of a nick name for him, but he is really sweet so it will have something to do with that. We have been chatting for about 2 or 3 weeks now. He is really an interesting guy. Just to bad he is 1000's of km away.

I've seen quite a few really brilliant movies including: Harry Potter (even though everyone else did not like it), Transformers and Terminator.

I haven't jogged in a while and haven't climbed in even longer. The winter has really been putting a strain on my will to do any kind of exercise.

Then, yesterday, a woman crashed into the side of my car. I just hope that the amount we have to pay in on the insurance is not to much.

Ok, so that is mostly my update.

Oh, PS. News: Ryan Reynolds will be the playing the roll of the Green Lantern(still in preproduction [IMDB]) and says that there is no rule against playing Deadpool (only been announced[IMDB]) and Green Lantern

Those difficult times

The House hold of the Queery has not been doing very well the last few months. The Parental Unit moved to Stellenbosch beginning of last year. I was not especially fond of the idea, but this was the only way to save money and for my Maternal Unit to be close to her restaurant in Stellies. This meant that The Bitch and I moved in with the Parental Unit. This worked out ok in the end though. We are a bit more restricted, cause we have to drive to campus and can't exactly go home slaughtered. Since I'm not a big drinker this was not a problem.

Any way, the Paternal Unit got retrenched (New South Africa and all) at the beginning of that year but got a contract job after searching long and hard. At the end of last year his contract ended and he has been looking for a job ever since, but to no avail. The restaurant is not making enough money to pay our bills at this time, mostly because the rent of it is so high, but it does feed us.

So in the beginning of the year I had to make a choice either start looking for work or do my masters. I have huge amounts of student loans that I would not be able to pay off if I only have an honors degree, but also do not want to put to much strain on the Paternal Unit who does not have a job. So I got my supervisor to grant me money to study further for 1 year, thank you supy! (so I need a bursary for next year or 2) and started working on my masters. Hag2 who have a honors degree in Physiology still does not have a job 'cause at some places has say that she is over qualified and some say she is under qualified, which in some cases means "sorry you are to white", so it is better that I studied.

It is approximately five or six months now and he still has not found work. He has looked everywhere and have spent allot of money on driving to and from interviews. I can see the pressure getting to him. They already had to sell the car, but at least the Business has a bakkie that they can use.

As an empath this is really draining me as well and I try to get energy from positive friends around me. Some have helped and some have only drained me more. Most do not even know or realize what I am going through.

And then I heard what The Bitch told the Parental Unit in front of her friend. She told the Paternal Unit that he is an embarrassment to her. That he just sits around in the restaurant and do nothing (actually what he is doing is helping the Maternal Unit and LOOKING FOR WORK ON THE INTERNET) and that it is his fault that he does not have a job. She also told them that they made her used to a higher class of living and that it is there responsibility to maintain her on that lifestyle. WHAT THE FUCK!!! Have you ever heard something that selfish, cruel, demanding and insane!!?? What is worse is that she is 22, and studying to become a reverent!!

I am trying to keep away from here at this stage, 'cause I might just commit murder!

So if you know of any place that needs a project manager, please let me know.

Those much needed apologies

To all, and I mean all my friends that I have hurt with my 'a class friends list':
i am truly sorry for any pain and disappointment that I have caused. I guess I was looking for some attention whilst going through a rough pach and approached it in completely the wrong way.
I have learned from this and hope you can forgive me.

The Queery

Those hot doosie boys

I met this boy...

But he is a doos cause I haven't heard from him since Saturday.

Tell you about him later today ;-)

Those very interesting websites

I saw this one website on a friend of myne's facebook and tried it out:
http://www.darksites.com/evilplan.php

Go try it out. It will eliminate all frustration

here is the plan it generated for me:

Evil Plan (tm)!

Your objective is simple: World Domination.

Your motive is a little bit more complex: Power

Stage One

To begin your plan, you must first assassinate a rich and powerful ceo. This will cause the world to sense a grave disturbance in the force, amazed by your arrival. Who is this evil genius? Where did they come from? And why do they look so good in your wizard's robes?

Stage Two

Next, you must steal new york. This will all be done from a underground secret headquarters of doom, a mysterious place of unrivaled dark glory. Upon seeing this, the world will spontaneously combust, as countless hordes of ninjas hasten to do your every bidding.

Stage Three

Finally, you must reveal to the world your great supernatural forces, bringing about the apocalypse. Your name shall become synonymous with evil, and no man will ever again dare interrupt your sentences. Everyone will bow before your mystical abilities, and the world will have no choice but to give you control of the planet.

Those Hotties

I haven't posted a hotties blog in MONTHS so here goes:


He is SEXY he is CHARMING and he is a BRILLIANT ACTOR

He is Ryan Phillippe

Born 10 September 1974 (didn't know he is this old) and bread in New Castle, Delaware, USA


The movies that made him a Star was I know what you did last summer (1997) and Cruel Intentions(1999) but he started out in a soap called "One life to live" in 1968

Some interesting facts:
He has 2 kids with Reese Witherspoon (before divorcing her) :
Daughter Ava Elizabeth Phillippe born [9 September 1999]
Son Deacon Reese Phillippe was born [October 23rd, 2003]


My favorite movie of his, is Playing by Heart, and he plays his role opposite Angelina Jolie.
This is also one of my most favorite movies of all time.

Those enjoying the attention times

Ok, so my list caught the attention of many of my friends. Quite a few friends said that they saw me during those weeks even though they did not invite me to anything, others just said that they can't see how I could judge our friendship on the amount of times they invite me to have fun with them. There are those select few that understands what I was trying to do and I would like to commend them on that.

I of course have many friends that are very angered by the list and I wonder how much of that anger is actually just a projection of guilt. Now I'm not saying that I am an angel, I also am guilty of not inviting everyone to every one of my events, but at least I try to see most of them once a month or at worst once a term.

But the list is working, people are noticing the fact that friendship is not only a one way relationship. And I am hearing from people I haven't heard from in YEARS! Though I hope they cool off withing the next week, I hate it when people are mad at me, but I knew it was coming.


The big question is what will my next social experiment be and how much can they handle? (EDIT: The "they" is society not my friends)

Those D-Day's

Today is D-Day, and a list of my A-Class friends will be posted on facebook and they will be tagged. I can't wait to see the impact it will make on my friends and they way I treat them and even more important, the way they treat me. The invites were interesting I must say.

So here is how I decided it. If my friends invited me to any event, even just coffee, over the last 3 weeks, whether I could make it or not, will fall it to the A-Class of my friends group. They are the ones who made an effort to see me and invite me to do so. The following will have immunity: anyone that lives more than 50km from me, because petrol is expensive. I will allow couples that are joined at the hip to share the status. One can not expect them to each invite you to the same events, but I might make a separate category for them. The 4 musketeers are also an exception since they will always be my closest friends (even though I don't always see them). DJ Teach did invited me for a drink though.

The ones from my blog that you would know is: Mr. P makes Class A and so does Hag 1 and her husband (in the couples category). My Boy also made Class A (oh btw he got a new BF). The Jock (from Those lonely times) did not invite me, but I think he lives more than 50km from me.

So congrats to those who made the list and to those that call themselves my friend and did not make the list, fuck you too.